I’ve been asked no small number of times this year why I am not voting. There are a number of reasons why, none seemingly satisfying to those doing the asking. Voting is a form of theft by proxy. No takers. It’s self debasing. Still no takers.
Ok, how about I’m incompetent to decide your values for you? I think you should have a 100% say in the values you choose to pursue, how you choose to pursue them, and in whose company you wish to engage such pursuit according to whatever arrangements you mutually agree to undertake.
Let me provide an example. Go look at these pictures, read the commentary, and see if you get the idea.