Stop Making Excuses And Get Insatiably Horny At Old Age, Men

— And enjoy the thanks of your women

This one calls for brutality and frank talk. It’s directed at men, particularly older men.

When are you going to stop making excuses? You’re not fooling anybody. If you’re not getting laid regularly, under an inviolable imperative to do so, then you aren’t fulfilling your birthright or your nature as a man. Men pursue women, and they have sex with them. It’s what they do. It’s your first imperative as a man.

And all these so-called trappings of civilization? Really, it’s just a bunch of excuse-making. You know why? Because pleasing women sexually is neither obvious nor easy. There’s a physical component, but there’s also a mental and behavioral component. So, a lot of what passes for all of this “gentlemanliness,” and deference to women, and supporting women, and on and on, it’s just excuse-making couched in virtue signaling.

And what makes it worse is how males regard other males who are successful with women. They have names for them like “predators” and “macho,” and the list goes on. And what I now see is that these are really just cries for help.

This begins with honestly asking yourself the question: Why do women respond to men like that? So, I’m going to let you in on a few little secrets. The purpose of this post is to introduce my newest download:

Testosterone Replacement Therapy and Human Growth Hormone for Old Men — Tales from the Trenches of the Gym and the Bedroom of a 63-Year-Old American “Sexpat” in Thailand

Another point I often notice is older men claiming, “Oh, my sex drive is just fine.” I have to say, I don’t see much evidence to widely support that claim. You do see a healthy sex drive in younger men—teenagers and those in their twenties. I’m not talking about their desires for sex, their fantasies, the way they might undress women with their eyes, their admiration and adoration of women, and so on, in regard to older men. But that’s not exactly what I’m referring to when I talk about sex drive. I’m talking about an imperative—a feeling like the one you had when you were in your twenties, thinking, “I’m going out tonight, and I’m going to get laid.” That’s the kind of drive I mean.

Now, it’s reasonable to argue that it’s natural for that drive to wane as time goes on, as a man gets older. Responsibilities tend to take precedence—business, family, other obligations like community involvement—and I’m not criticizing any of that. I’m not making a critique of civilization. What I am saying is that, while it may be natural in our current state as human beings, there’s no imperative to stay that way. Male testosterone decreases with age, as do growth hormone secretions, but we have the technology to reintroduce these with bioidentical hormone therapy. So, you have the ability to reset yourself back to the levels you had when you were 20, if you choose to do so. It’s every person’s individual choice. I’m just telling you from personal experience, having been on both sides, that I prefer the latter.

I’ve been on testosterone replacement for about six months now and growth hormone for about five months. The growth hormone probably isn’t a long-term solution. It works in conjunction with the testosterone, and my primary reason for using it is its profound effect on fat burning. Once I reach my desired level, I’ll probably back off the growth hormone. It’s beneficial for skin and some tissue repair and so on, but you can achieve that at a very low dose. Right now, I’m at about a medium dose.

Bottom line?

At 63, I enjoy more sex on a weekly basis than a high percentages of males up into their 30s have enjoyed in a lifetime. The age range of my pursuits is 20-45. The young ones are never long-term liaisons. The 35-45 range is the sweet spot for something that lasts weeks to months. Here’s a tidbit. I have two separate profiles on Thai Friendly. Live & learn.

So, the one to the left without gym photos more appeals to the above 30 and 40 gals. Also, the one photo with a smile is essential—A/B testing done. The one with the gym photos? Young 20s, even 18 and 19. They pester me, aren’t after anything serious. Fun and curiosity. They like how old men attend to them in bed.

… Dudes, if you want to know what women really think about sexually…

For example, have you any idea how many harbor rape and gang-bang fantasies? If all of them who do, admit to it (research shows about 60% admit to rape fantasies and for 20% it’s their favorite), then I’m calling it 100%. I know many Thai chicks who seek out Korean and Japanese porn where dramatized forced sex is a big part of their porn industry. Ever bothered to wonder why, in both cases? Ever even aware of it?

Or, did you always just take the word and “official [feminist] narrative” on human female sexuality?

Anyway, I’ve taken to saying that women aren’t against rape, per se. They’re against unwanted rape. That’s partially tongue-in-cheek because I know very well that fantasy is not reality and nobody is for having serious violence committed against themselves.

Well, Hollywood used to have this element nailed. I’m talking about the ‘no means yes’ thing. (Incidentally, we had to go through the endless, bogus ‘no means no’ rote-indoctrination drone because no, in fact, often does mean yes, and you’re a stupid sucker if you ever fell for that trope.) You remember old movies, dontcha? It passed because people knew exactly what they were watching and many had played similar roles as young people, especially young men, overcoming resistance—not to the point of violence, but let’s just say Goldilocks levels of force or encouragement or license or permission to overcome Goldilocks levels of [feigned] resistance.

I’m getting into the weeds here, but why not? Here’s something, and then I’m going to let women off the hook and tell you why.

This is no accident, and for many dudes, it’s just better to switch than fight.

Simple as that.

So, we have two separate issues here. One is, what’s a guy to do? I mean, having a woman that makes you horny is an immediate need. You can’t just wait around for civilization to change. The Western hemisphere of civilization has lost its way a long time ago with regard to the relationships between men and women. Men and women have different survival strategies. I’ve brought this up before, but I think it’s best illustrated by what’s called GSRRM by Curt Doolittle.

GSRRM

The Female (herd) competitive strategy of circumventing argument by use of undermining, poisoning the well, and reputation destruction by use of (G)ossiping (S)haming, (R)allying, (R)idicule, (M)oralizing, Psychologizing, Undermining, Reputation destruction, and solving for face or consent – instead of Male (pack) strategy of factual argument, solving for truth regardless of face or consent. In other words, female “feels” using rejection or approval vs male “reals” of truth or falsehood.

Thai women are actually pretty open and frank about it, unabashedly.

“It’s up to my feelings.”

And, just as with women anywhere, I suppose, feelings change like the wind. One gal I see, a 43-yr-old, uses that “up to my feelings” thing the most. Guess what her messaging app handle is? Yea, “wind of change.”

A handful?

Let’s just say I call her “my Kryptonite.”

Getting back to the matter at hand, the survival strategy makes perfect sense for women who are weak and vulnerable. They have to develop a sort of skill at switching alliances or “sleeping with the enemy.” But whose fault is that, ultimately? If power switches within the tribe, that’s the men’s doing. If the tribe loses to another tribe, that’s also the men’s doing. If the men of one tribe can’t manage to see to the needs of that tribe, but there’s another tribe whose men can, whose fault is that?

What I’m saying is that Western civilization, or more precisely, the men and institutions formed by men, lost the playbook on women a long time ago and are now reaping what they’ve sown for hundreds, perhaps even thousands, of years. But it’s worse. We now train most boys and pretty much all men are encouraged to use the same basic social strategy…to be whiny little bitches.

… I’m only scratching the surface regarding some of the differences between women in the West and women in Asia—and I have experience with far more than just Thais. I lived in Japan for five years and have traveled all over the region.

The religions here are not monotheistic and, in some cases, like Buddhism, aren’t even centered around some supreme being—they’re more just spiritual, contemplative philosophies of real life, not “after” life. They certainly don’t have the notion of original sin where a person is born with guilt and shame, which is difficult to account for psychologically…not to mention sexually, with all the taboos and unnatural prohibitions.

I’ll tell you one manifestation: Thai women achieve sexual orgasm with great ease compared to Western women. I’ll leave it at that.

Know the terrain. Then go have fun.

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Richard Nikoley

I started writing Free The Animal in late 2003 as just a little thing to try. 20 years later, turns out I've written over 5,000 posts. I blog what I wish...from diet, health, lifestyle...to philosophy, politics, social antagonism, adventure travel, expat living, location and time independent—while you sleep— income by geoarbitrage, and food pics. I intended to travel the world "homeless," but the Covidiocy Panicdemic squashed that. I became an American expat living in Thailand. I celebrate the audacity and hubris to live by your own exclusive authority and take your own chances. ... I leave the toilet seat up. Read More

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