Rude Awakening: The Art of Breaking The Rules

  • Introduction
  • No Limits
  • No Fear
  • The Art Of Breaking The Rules
  • How About Daily Rude Awakenings?
  • What’s Cooking


There are three common marketing bullshit shticks I can’t stand.

  • NO LIMITS!!!
  • NO FEAR!!!

All bullshit, and here’s why.

All of nature is limited. Fear warns and informs us when limits are being reached. Rules generalize, formalize, and sometimes legalize behavior in order to sustain a societal order that doesn’t have everyone creating chaos by testing nature at every turn.

“Nature, to be commanded, must be obeyed.”Francis Bacon

No Limits

The universe would be an awful, unsurvivable place if it didn’t operate under sets and layers of physical laws. We would be unable to predict even the simplest of things. We would be unable to understand or count on anything for sure. Perhaps anyone might have absolute omnipotence; or, anyone might have zero power or influence. In either case, you’re at the mercy of whimsical willy-nilly from minute to minute.

Imagine that at any given moment, dust just wouldn’t settle to the floor so you could sweep it up—and that assumes your broom is simultaneously functioning as a broom, and not a leaf blower….

So, thank God for natural laws and limitations in all things…even though as the supposed creator of them, he’s exempt—just like the US Congress in the laws it enacts.

Limitations give rise to beauty and opportunity. Beauty happens as one thing pushes only so far as to meet something else in nature pushing back. Opportunity presents by discovering limited “loopholes” and exploiting them until something comes along to push back on that, too.

We live in a world of constant politicized global crisis where no limits are even hypothesized to slow or stop anything, SO WE MUST ACT NOW!!!

Both are lies. There are limits and in terms of the globe, we have almost no influence or power to change much, if anything, really. You’re being chumped, fooled, and suckered if you buy into any of it.

Nature is dominated by negative feedback. Ignorance of that is how you get silly, politicized to socialized things like the purposefully fraudulent Michael Mann Hockey Stick. Even damn NUCLEAR FISSION isn’t a run-away chain-reaction positive feedback. A nuclear “chain-reaction” is limited proportional to the kind and amount of fissionable material in the bomb.

Don’t be stupid. Instead, differentiate between natural and artificial, man-made limitations designed to keep you compliant and held back. More on that later.

No Fear

Want to see what NO FEAR!!! looks like? Google Darwin Awards, an informal sort of thing to highlight instances of gene-pool cleansing.

The Darwin Awards are a tongue-in-cheek honor originating in Usenet newsgroup discussions around 1985. They recognize individuals who have supposedly contributed to human evolution by selecting themselves out of the gene pool by dying or becoming sterilized via their own actions.

The project became more formalized with the creation of a website in 1993, followed by a series of books starting in 2000 by Wendy Northcutt. The criterion for the awards states: “In the spirit of Charles Darwin, the Darwin Awards commemorate individuals who protect our gene pool by making the ultimate sacrifice of their own lives. Darwin Award winners eliminate themselves in an extraordinarily idiotic manner, thereby improving our species’ chances of long-term survival.”[1]

There are probably others in similar vein, but some months ago I stumbled upon a YouTube Channel that often has me in stitches: They Will Kill You. There’s plenty of accidents and tragedies, too, so don’t get me wrong on that. But, it does illustrate that there are limits and a lot of things you rightly ought to be afraid of for the sake of your own reasonable safety and survival.

Just as with the no-limits trope, the no-fear slogan is purposed to turn your natural fear response into synthetic fear of your own making through politicized and socialized suggestion and harping and droning on and on in a 24/7 cycle until deafness, when it’s time to move to a new crisis. That is, most people don’t actually experience real situations where a greater measure of fear and trepidation would be entirely warranted. They create imagined fear in their own minds and then act on it as though it’s probable.

As such, the acting out of fear is entirely screwy all over the place—where many fear not the truly fearful, but the benign. The lists upon lists are enormous. A touchstone of this phenomena for me is the 2018 rapes and murder-by-decapitation of the two pretty-hot babes, Louisa Vesterager Jespersen and Maren Ueland in Morocco.

On 17 December 2018, the bodies of Louisa Vesterager Jespersen, a 24-year-old Danish woman, and Maren Ueland, a 28-year-old Norwegian woman, were found decapitated in the foothills of Mount Toubkal near to the village of Imlil in the Atlas Mountains of Morocco.[4][2]

A total of 18 men have been arrested by Moroccan Police in relation to the murders. The murders were described by the Moroccan general prosecutor as a terrorist act after a video of several of the suspects were shown swearing allegiance to the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant while decapitating Jespersen was released on the Internet.[5][6]

Well, it’s those DAMN TERRORISTS!!! again who just want to TAKE AWAY OUR FREEDOMS!!! How about that since the dawn of mammalian humanity 100-200K years ago—when one aspect is that the male might begin to stick around to protect his family—females understood they should not be unaccompanied by protective males outside of the general umbrella-protection of the village?

I know, sucks for women and to a generally lesser extent, men. But never ever forget that the chief predator of humans is other humans.

What would you want to bet that those two girls were pretty WOKE?!!! That, in rejecting the narrative from the right that many Muslim men are EVIL DOERS!!! they blanked out the fact that predatory males—where young, pretty, sexually-flaunting women are present—exist all over the world of all ethnicities, cultures, creeds, ideologies, religions? So, in ignoring rational trepidation and fear while embracing the fear-where? politicized and socialized narrative for gain by others, they got themselves raped and had their heads chopped off to fanfare?

There are many examples.

The Art of Breaking The Rules

Rebellion is contextual.

All infants are rebellious. They just don’t follow the rules and raise an ungodly fuss when nurtured into them. One could say they begin life fearlessly exploring limits.

Here’s another one: assholes are contextual.

The worst sort of rebel is the one without a cause. A rebel without principles he or she can thoroughly explicate eye-glazing-degree is just a pointless pain in the ass, parasitic often enough. As I said above, rules exist to more contemplatively and formally normalize, calm, and stabilize a society where lots of people are acting out-and-about in pursuit of their own goals, desires, and ways.

The problem with no rules is that various pursuits of fearless and limitless action very often wraps up innocent people. It is a social value to not have to be constantly looking over your shoulders for the next Darwin-Award idiot to come along. And plus, a polite and graceful society is a nice place to live. They have them all over the world. Check into it. My place in Ban Laem Thong, Sisaket, Thailand—a village of under 500 people—is just such a place. Never have I lived amongst such sweet human beings.

My attitude and approach to rules is rather like The Golden Rule (do unto others as you would have them do unto you): He who has the gold makes the rules.

To put a finer point on that: you own it, you’re in charge. Accordingly, if I’m in your home, I abide by your rules. If I’m in your business, I abide by your rules. And that’s absolute, because if I don’t care for them I am perfectly free to either negotiate with you, or leave. Negotiation of these sorts of rules can be artful but you must acknowledge that your only standing is the pleasure of your company or the attractiveness of your patronage; and your only leverage is your own unequivocal ability to deny both.

Most of us get along fine under those perfectly valid rule structures and altercations amongst the sane are rare and even when they happen get quickly resolved amicably.

Where is all this the exact opposite? Let’s make a list.

  • Government
  • Government
  • Government
  • Government
  • Government

I could go on.

From the United Nations all the way down through the USA’s “checks & balances” to the local teepee-based Tribal Council, there are real assholes with a million personal—often sociopathic and psychopathic—motivations for being such—from a plethora of insecurities, to looters desiring unearned wealth, to base cruelty, to status seekers, to plain old enculers.

It’s always a melange of bait and switch. The State endlessly touts the bread and butter rules: no murder, no rape, no kidnapping, no theft, and no fraud, etc., while picking your pocket or your time, attention, and veritable soul in a million other ways.

But it gets far worse. What the government can’t do by legislation so far, it can do by bureaucratic rule-making, rent-seeking, regulation, and hosts of other incentives and penalties targeting and using the quasi-State entities we call corporations. Corporations are statutory entities. That is, they have both a private and a state element to them— which generally amounts to liability shielding in most civil and some criminal matters—in exchange for playing by the rules. It gets even worse. In no way are publicly traded corporations—i.e., the big ones—private entities. They are far more fascistic quasi-State entities than are they remotely private. To put a blunt point on it, the government can’t censor your speech but it can easily get social media to do it. They probably can’t make you get a Covid-19 vaccination that would pass Constitutional muster with an even remotely sane SCOTUS. But they sure can get “private” companies to require it as terms of employment.

Democracy drives this, make no mistake. It’s the means by which those of the lowest to no standing to make rules of their own surrounding what they own, get to make rules for everyone else, “just right.” In league with the media and now, social media, they do it by generating and promoting a bunch of fear narratives so that you ignore real fears and concentrate instead on imaginary ones. For most of society, they only require the seed of irrational, imaginary fear, and all the insane constituencies take it from there. Social Media is the great new promoter of all of them.

Really worth 4 minutes. Got it from a search but it’s perfect.

So, you know what to do. Be principled, dignified, and even humble in your rule breaking. I’m not so good at the latter, but I am working on it. I often think of rule-breaking in the finest peaceful and humble traditions of Civil Disobedience, as advanced by Henry David Thoreau and further astutely and effectively popularized by Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr.

Given the brazzen affronts to humanity by so many enculers globally over 18 months with Covid-19, we’re in need off massive peaceful Civil Disobedience more than at any time in human history.

Now, for the TLDR on Civil Disobedience, let me leave you with the three core principles that make it unbeatable, provided any conscience and humanity remain in the locality or region.

  1. Meticulously peaceful
  2. Willing to be arrested, prosecuted, and face the full brunt of whatever punishment issues forth
  3. Protect your oppressors from and against anyone amongst you who violates rules #1 and #2

It’s a veritable Golden Helmet when done like that.

How About Daily Rude Awakenings?

I have an expat friend, Sean Ring, who writes a M-F Newsletter for Agora Financial and Paradigm Press. He’s an annual paid subscriber here on this blog.

Truth be told, I have had many subscriptions to various things Agora going back a very long time, perhaps to mid-90s. No fault of theirs, but it’s probably just me where I either can’t be bothered to read them amongst all else hitting my email, eventually lose interest, get distracted, whatever. Sean hits my sweet spot and I never miss a daily issue. It’s primarily financial-markets observations per his Rude twist on it. It’s a fabulous contrast to the screed from the hilariously woke Morning Brew newsletter—which I read every morning and hate far more than I ever love.

Sean salts and peppers almost every issue with some sort of personal story, anecdote, reminiscence, whatever. The quick backstory is that he’s an American from New Jersey, went to Villanova, then moved to London for a masters at London School of Business and Finance. He stayed and worked for a time, and he even got British citizenship and later, actually renounced his US citizenship before his son was born. WHY? Because of birthright citizenship. If he was a US Citizen at the time of his son’s birth, his son automatically becomes a US Citizen whether he wants to be or not.

It’s kind of like the ancient Jewish ritual of circumcision. You don’t get to choose whether your dick gets mutilated or not.

Sure, his son could have had an automatic way to go to the US; to live and work. But had he not chosen to ever do so, even set foot in it, he would still be liable for US taxes on lifetime income; including any penalties, interest, and criminal liability. Far fetched? The US Internal Revenue Service has an office in Beijing whose mission it is to find “US-Citizens” who have become rich in China—but may not have even been born in the US, or necessarily even knew about their “automatic citizenship,” or held any value in it, whatsoever. (Chalk that latter thing up to a “Land Of The Free” update. Take heart that the taxes they “collect” from foreigners will be used against evil doers who’re trying to take away our freedoms… There’s that comfort for you.)

He later lived and worked in Singapore and Hong Kong and beyond writing his newsletter, trains banking professionals in the finer points.

He writes from Cebu, Philippines, the country and origin of his spouse. He now holds a British and Italian EU passport, as does his son—who also holds a Philippines passport.

How’s THAT for the artful breaking of rules?

The free Newsletter is called The Rude Awakening.

What’s Cooking

The Paid-Membership element of this blog is commercially viable and growing slowly but steadily. I’m energized about that. I do everything wrong. On any given day, I see piles of putrid bullshit from abject con-artists trying to get you to buy some marketing program replete with the MLM-style testimonials from the usual lackeys, along with the set of steps to easy and automatic online wealth.

Be sure to buy while those steps are still viable and will make you millions. If you don’t and you buy in at the tail end, then everything changes. You name it. Everything that made you millionaires last year puts you in the red now. But don’t worry. There’s a new program that works even better than the last.

Don’t get me wrong. I have no problem separating fools from their money on the basis of imaginative sizzle. It’s just that it’s not for me. I like to sleep well and I dislike complaints or unsatisfied paying customers. In 5 months and over 500 Members now, I’ve had 3 or 4 cancellations, and none came with any complaints. They apparently just clicked and cancelled, I got an email notice. Nice, calm, peaceful. I usually click into the Stripe dashboard to make sure the recurring charge has been cancelled and it always is. Stripe is fantastic; I’ve had a hate-and-loathing relationship with all CC merchant providers going back to 1995. Legacy IBM Mainframe crap, where their monthly statements look like your dad’s BankAmericard statements from 1965.

I’m not really “selling” anything per se, which is why I love the subscription model where anyone can subscribe, stay subscribed as long as they desire, and cancel whenever with no bullshit or questions. The most annoying thing in the world is a fraudulent company—and there are no exceptions—where you can sign up in a snap online, but want to cancel, gotta call the 800#.

Fuck the fuck off with any and all of that.

What I do is just write stuff. A lot of stuff, whatever I want, with no fears of cancel wankers. Those who want me to keep doing that can support it with the equivalent of a Premium Venti Starbuck every month, with syrup, whipped cream, and sparkles. I’m becoming increasingly aware of just what a plethora of options in terms of writers and video creators there are out there, where you actually pay directly rather than get it FOR FREE!!! (but requires three ad-and-pop-up blocker ad-ons to read in peace). I don’t even have a cookie warning annoyance which is the New Vogue. Fuck that. If I did, I’d be honest: “I don’t know whether or not this site uses cookies and I have no idea how I’d exploit you with them if it did. Browse at your own risk.”

So I’ve got the Permanent Crisis series, the Gut Bugs series ready to for issue #2 any day now, and I think I may have 2-3 posts in me for old dudes: raising free testosterone naturally as I’ve done since arriving in Thailand 18 months ago.

I have another series in the works right now, tentatively titled: “Covid-19 Increased Your Credit Card Debt? Then Let Me Show You How to Negotiate Out of It Yourself.” I started a debt-negotiation business in 1993 that was B2B. I helped businesses renegotiate their debt obligations to other businesses. In 1998 I added consumers with an average of $30K CC debt and built it to 30 employees and over $3 million annual revenue. An average month was a settlement tally of $2-3 million of CC debt down to an average of 35 cents on the dollar. We made an average of $5,000 per client over the 2-3 years of work it took to get it done; but, when all done, the client was debt free for about 60% of what they came in with, including our fees.

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  1. Christina M on October 1, 2021 at 21:03

    We lived in a little town in Germany for a number of years during the time that our children were going to Kindergarten and the first four years of school. Germans are big on early independence for their children, which sounds like a good idea, but I noticed that what happens is you have children socializing children, instead of wise adults socializing children, and you end up with packs of feral children running around the neighborhood with no respect for other people’s property.

    Then we moved back to the US and I watched the same thing happening, but in a slightly different form. Children were put into child care from birth on, and were raised and socialized by mostly garbage humans who were incapable of getting any other kind of job.

    Ditto most teachers. Young, inexperienced, lacking in wisdom, and incapable of getting any kind of degree except low-IQ Education.

    Fifty years ago, most children were still being mainly raised and socialized by mom and dad at home. Growing up, I didn’t know any kids in childcare. Most of my teachers were not 24 years old and fresh out of college. My teachers seemed to be older, wiser, and to have decorum.

    The childcare/education situation we have now is relatively new, churning out waves of feral children who have only been socialized by other feral children and garbage adults.

    Where is all of that no-fear and no-limits mentality coming from?

    My theory: Some of it is autism. A lot of it is damaged amygdala in children who have been traumatized by being removed from the family environment and warehoused almost 24/7 with packs of feral children and garbage adults.

    People with damaged amygdala have a warped perception of danger. They have no fear of the real danger standing right in front of them, because they can’t even see it, but they have loads of irrational fear for some phantom danger “out there.”

    Our whole country is being run by packs of feral, amygdala-damaged children. Much of the world is, as well.

    God only knows what kind of amygdala damage we’re importing in from south of the border, out of Africa (mainly Somalia), and out of Afghanistan right now.

    The reason the place where you live functions sanely, I would bet, is that ADULTS, who are mostly parents and extended family, are raising and socializing the children in a stable and mainly non-transient environment.

    • Richard Nikoley on October 2, 2021 at 09:20

      Well I know nothing of amygdala or any of that, but I can certainly buy the idea that the proper formation of kids has been way off going back to the 60s, beginning with lots of TV watching. And everything that comes along seems to add just another dumb thing.

      Children should be formed by:

      1. Lots of close time with mom as infants
      2. Mom and dad (and grandparents and siblings) as toddlers
      3. Skewed toward mom for girls and dad for boys as children and young children
      3. Play with siblings and close neighbor children where the families share values.
      4. No TV, video games, phones, or tablets. Ever.
      5. Never let your children get within 100 feet of shit-kids with shit-parents.

      I could go on.

  2. Christina M on October 2, 2021 at 22:47

    I realized (somehow?) that I was actually missing your point. I had to go and copy your article to a Word document. How sad is that? It turns out I can’t read or understand things in certain formats and/or off of a phone-sized screen. Weird. Apologies for the comment that did not address your point.

  3. Resurgent on October 2, 2021 at 23:48

    A very interesting read Richard,

    I liked the “Fear” video – but I think the speaker left out a few important things.

    No child is born with fear.
    Every child is born with freedom, doubt, rebellion, individuality, innocence – all great qualities.
    But every child is helpless and dependent upon the adults.

    Nature teaches the child caution and how to stay away from danger, like when a child touches a burning candle for the first time and learns not to do it again.

    But “fear” is not natural, it is always created. It is imposed upon us, by our parents, priests, teachers; almost everyone we come in contact with as children.. Why?

    Because fear is the antithesis of freedom. The more fear a person has, the less is the possibility of freedom, less is the possibility of rebellion.

    The school, the church, temple, mosque – the state.. Let it be clear – They all want everybody to be in a state of constant fear. Fear of the known, fear of the unknown, fear of death, fear of hell, fear of missing heaven, fear of not making it in society, fear of just being a nobody etc. etc.

    As an adult one can try to peel this onion layer by layer – how fears have been created in us from our childhood, how our innocence as a child has been exploited.

    The priest had no knowledge of God, he has never met him, yet he deceives and pretends that he knows God.
    He has no idea of heaven and hell, he has never been to either, yet he tells us to be afraid of hell, and to be aspire for heaven.
    He creates fear, he creates greed.

    Everybody has been pretending to their children. In a way we are all hypocrites. But that is the only game in town, we keep on thrusting our beliefs upon the next generation and it goes on.

    There are a few who can separate their ‘beliefs’ from their ‘experiences’ and have the guts to call the bullshit.

    I think many of those are paid members of your blog..


    • Richard Nikoley on October 3, 2021 at 07:51

      I get what you’re saying. I think the term fear gets used loosely. For example, God fearing can be taken to mean God respecting. When we say fear of something, we could easily have said we take great awareness and caution.

      And for the natural potential hazards that gives us a shot of adrenalin and/or motivates us to fight or flea, we say because of fear but when you think of it, that’s a poor description because it’s almost the exact opposite of self or societal instilled fear which makes us stupid. When in fight or flight, you are your smartest, most aware self.

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