1 Toothache; 2 New Girlfriends; and a Threesome

— Navigating Love, Pain, and Pleasure in Thailand

  1. Toothache
  2. HGH cool side effect benefit
  3. OTC pain meds (prescription in the land of the free)
  4. Thailand Confidential
    • – 2 new GFs
    • – Surprise threesome sprung up
    • – Legal action against the ex-GF
    • – Suckered by heart strings and love for children
  5. Upcoming Black Friday to End of Year Promotion
  6. Photos of the 2 new girlfriends, including the 32-year-old, 5’7″ 115 lb runway model and a significant introduction to them and their knockout stories

It’s the one chronic, throbbing pain all of us have probably experienced in our lives. It’s something that’s difficult to describe, but we don’t really need to. Just a few adjectives and adverbs, you get the knowing nod.

It has been so long for me that I don’t truly recall when the last time was, though I know I was young. That’s because just several years back, within the year before moving to Thailand in 2020, I had a very low-level toothache that was intermittent. I chalked it up to gum inflammation (there was visual evidence of puffiness), doubled down on tooth picking, flossing, swishing, and rinsing, and it largely did the trick—until many months later a dentist informed me that it didn’t hurt much anymore because the root was shrivelled or whatever, it had to be “canaled,” and then crowned. That was a pretty penny in cost, about $1,500 if memory serves.

So, this time, I’m taking swift action. It only began a few weeks ago and is confounded by overall jaw pain from a fantastic thing I believe is a side effect of HGH injections, where the side effect is a side-benefit. I’ll explain in a post to the Physical Culture section later. Eye-popping wow.

It was last Friday when I determined I’ll have to go to the dentist for this one. I’d already established a relationship with German Dental here in Pattaya, just down the street a bit, for an excellent 25-buck cleaning with a 3-person dental-hygiene team, a couple of months ago. All the same equipment and service you’d be accustomed to in the US.

Check office hours. Monday through Thursday. It was Friday. I suffered through the weekend to today, Monday, on some 400mg ibuprofen (800mg barely touches it), picking, flossing, and salt-water rinsing.

But I have an appointment. Tomorrow at 16.30. 30 hours to go. If it’s a regular simple cavity, and they drill and fill with the white stuff hardened by UV (just like in the US), it’ll set me back a whopping $54. Sure wish I had DENTAL COVERAGE!!! I asked if they had anything for the pain in the interim. They handed me a pack of…400mg ibuprofen.

I went a few doors down to my favorite pharmacy in a town of a thousand pharmacies (including 24-hour) and asked if they could help more. A package of Tramadol 50mg was the pharmacist’s “yes, we can.”

“Tramadol is an opioid medicine used for the short-term relief of moderate to severe pain. It is not usually recommended for the treatment of chronic (long-term) pain. Tramadol is only available with a prescription from your doctor [in the land of the free].”

However, in Thailand, any pharmacy can dispense them so long as the pharmacist on duty deems it warranted. He also gave me a little Patar M.16 Kit For Toothaches, which is some clove-oil thing, cotton, and tweezers. Pretty numbing.

Anyway, pain management is a thing here as I sit and that Tramadol is working wonders. Great suff! I can write something again, see? Oh, and both that opioid pain med pack of 10 and toothache kit set me back $2.25. Sure wish I had that “co-pay coverage.”

… This isn’t the only thing that’s kept new blog content at bay for far longer than is the common few days.

I have a big project creating “curated archives.” It’s basically taking the 5,500-posts, 5-million-words archives, defining about 30 categories, and then creating curated “sub-blogs” where the best of the posts that fit in the categories are included—and there will be constant updates with new material, and churn from archives, as I meticulously go through and curate. It’s painstaking, and most of my work the last couple of weeks has been going through a thousand posts to kick things off in a few days.

Whew.

One of those new sub-blogs will be Thailand Confidential. This will, of course, include all the stories already posted over the last four years. The ups and downs.

But a lot more.

See, I have a problem in that it’s a polarizing topic. For whatever reason(s), some people love it the most and can’t get enough. And, for whatever reason(s), some people hate it the most, and do not want to ever hear that I insist upon young and beautiful women to engage in sexual relations with. Then, for whatever reason(s), there are those who love to hate it, or hate to love it, the most.

I can’t please everyone, but what I can do is accommodate as best I can, no prob. So, it’s going to be all the sexual (sexpat, if you will) content your heart could desire if you want, compete with all WARNING!!! signs and full disclosures if you’re otherwise a fan here but prefer to avoid that stuff. And for those open-minded about it, you’ll be able to toe dip and see what you end up thinking and form your own judgments.

Up to you, as every Thai chick you’ll ever know will tell you over and over.

So, if you want to hear some—not all—of the details of the threesome the last couple of nights my new girlfriend (1 of 2 new girlfriends, who know about each-other) initiated and sprung on me with a friend of hers, you will. If, like me, you’ve tried them before and were left wanting (in my 20s and yes, they ain’t like in porno), you’ll learn the secret sauce to making them OMG (and it has nothing to do with lesbo…and this was not that).

Which brings me to the final thing Thailand Confidential will include. The forensics over the ex-girlfriend and why I’m currently in consultation with a lawyer to sue for recovery of some assets. It’s such a fucking tawdry tale, you won’t believe you’re reading it. You’ll get deeper insights into the nature of a true psychopath (a sociopath is just a fuckup who doesn’t care…a psycho is calculating and gets off on it). Most shocking, you’ll discover what it took me to get to the bottom of everything, the whole truth.

It’ll be a soul cleansing for me; it’ll be embarrassing. It’ll all be behind the paywall, so I won’t face mocking because I have a rational membership. If it were public, I’d be mocked to the hilt. That’s the way things are.

I’ve learned this, that no matter how hard-nosed and astute you are in the things you do best…be it business, sports, professions…that when it’s matters of the heart and especially where children are involved and even used against you, all bets are fucking off. I fully understand how dads get absolutely destroyed in divorce and custody battles, even as they know they are being destroyed.

It’s almost like martyrdom for the sake of the kids, in a way.

Anyway, telling the whole story as only I can, will be part of my own getting of my head and heart in the right place.

… I just realized that Thanksgiving is upon us very soon. Of course, that’s the kickoff for the annual commercial season which, I decided last year to be a good sport about, go with it, and participate. And then damn, I did quite well; so I’m sold, I guess you can say.

I offered a bit of a deal on getting membership, and the teeth-in-the-deal was that subscription prices double January 1st. I see no reason not to repeat that this year. The caveat is that whatever price you join with is your price for life, no matter how many times I double.

Stay tuned for that.

OK, wanna see photos of the two new girlfriends, with substantial descriptions and backstories (the model is in OMG sexy attire)? Being with these two over the last month—a couple of times per week each (I emphasize there are no secrets)—has been fantastic and a super contrast with the past where fucking everything was lies upon lies upon lies (here in Lieland). I so stumbled into two outlier chicks, at almost the same time, who are consummate truth-tellers. Shockingly so. They’ve found it to be the best policy for the sort of lives they lead. It’s so fucking refreshing and I can’t wait to tell you all about it. Shocking details, as they say.

The threesome story will be forthcoming (but is introduced below with just enough whistle-wetting detail), and you’ll have plenty of WARNING!!! to avoid it entirely and not satisfy any curiosity at all.

And all sagas will continue…

UPDATE:

The runway model / go-go girl was working here in Pattaya prior to Covid. She has a 5 year-old son. During Covid, she found a Thai boyfriend and relocated to Chiang Rai, 1,000 Km to the far north. When that blew up some months ago, she drove her and son the whole distance on a 125cc motorbike over the space of 2 days. It’s 620 miles. She refuses to have someone at the homestead raise her son while she’s working in farang heaven. So he’s here and even if she’s with me from 03.00 when she’s off from go-go dancing just down the hill on Walking Street, she’s outta here by 6, in time to get the youngster off to school every day; or on the weekends, spend the whole day with him.

Good thing my schedule is highly flexible.

Sumitra is her name. She’s never asked me for 1 baht and truth be told, I don’t know what she sees in me but she say to me all the time, “I know you,” whatever that means. That phone? Her first new one in 5 years, purchased with some money I gave her anyway. She’s 32. At 62, I’m 6 years older than her father, who’s a long-haul truck driver out of Suvarnabhumi International Airport in Bangkok. She wears regular, unfashionable loose clothing, saying she doesn’t care to spend money if she “don’t need it.”

She’s the most unassuming person in a body like that I’ve ever met. I have arranged to spend 10 days solid and continuous with her come 1st week of December…she’ll go back home each early morning though, to see her son off to school and will come back to my place when he’s off to bed (in the house of a friend and friend’s American BF). The other girl knows and is perfectly supportive.

I accept no lies, no secrets…each of them being a block in the cell wall that imprisons you. Lies and secrets are your masters; you, their slave.

… She was in a serious motorcycle accident, once. When she was 5. She has a deep crater scar on her left thigh to show for it. Her mother, who was driving, was killed. I wonder how that fact weighed on her as she was driving her own 5-year-old son 1000km by motorbike out of life’s necessity…

When you consider the ongoing geopolitical culture wars, do you ever wonder how things might turn based on which countries now produce the mentally toughest people? You think it won’t matter in the long run?

… Now on to Saifon.

She’s 42. Does she look it? Oldest and perhaps the best…but I’m being picky, choosy, and fucking patient.

She’s been seeing farang men for four years, but much of that was Covid, and she wasn’t seeing anyone much for a good part of it, until some tourism returned. Right at the start of it, she had been living for the previous year with a very wealth British condominium developer in both the UK and Thailand. She adored him, a man of about my age. On his last trip back home to the UK three years ago, he was killed in a vehicle accident.

Her dreams smashed.

Every girl has the same story, I always say. On the upside, he did give her 2 million baht ($57,000) to buy a pig farm in Buri Ram where she’s from. Her brother tends to it, and they’re raising 100 hogs at a time for slaughter. Thai pork is divine. Ask any German who comes here regularly.

Yes, this is the one who sprung the threesome on me, totally out of the blue, saying that her and her friend had done it before a few times, they both loved it, and hadn’t done so in a long time. Apparently, I didn’t disappoint them because they both came back the next night for a repeat, and we smashed records.

I’ll not be doing explicit details in these postings. Better you use your imagination. I can give general guidance, however. There is touching between them but no “down there” stuff, so technically not the lesbo stuff porn threesomes of this sort are made of. They enjoy watching each other with me, doing whatever, and are not shy about being seen doing what they’re doing, no matter how genuinely enthusiastic and convulsive.

Are you satisfied?

… I have broached the subject with Saifon of doing the steady girlfriend thing (I’m the only one she sees who lives here). She’s beautiful, sexy, sassy, sultry, joyful, and fun all in one and consistently. The 6 or so other men she sees when they do their trips to Thailand 2–3 times per year for 2–4 weeks at a time clamor for her to stay with them 24/7 for the duration.

In a place like this, that’s high praise for a 42-year-old. I believe every word of it and her unavailability over days and upcoming as high-season approaches are the receipts. Still, she testifies that she would rather be steady with someone…then she laughs. It’s all just at discussion level now, totally frank. No neediness or dreaminess either way. We’ll do some serious 24/7 time prior, to see how that goes.

And I know all this because the very 1st time I met her she told me most of it, saying, I want to be myself and never tell you a lie.

What an ecstatic pleasure. A universe apart from the living hell I put myself through for the virtue-signal of taking responsibility for poor children for 3 1/2 years in hopes of positively altering the course of their lives from the rural “poor and stupid” they had going for them and, once again, is all they have going for them.

You know what else is universal?

That no good deed goes unpunished.

Way more later. Thanks for your membership and really, if this sort of content doesn’t suit you, you will have ample ways to be forewarned about it. But, to not tell the stories is not an option. I hope you can find your groove with it. Cheers.

(I’m fucking happy, by the way; in spite of the ache…toothache.)


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2 Comments

  1. Robert Theroux on November 20, 2023 at 22:23

    Very nice looking women.. Do they like the new digs, especially the view?

    • Richard Nikoley on November 20, 2023 at 22:38

      Quite definitely, but in a reserved way. They’re not overly expressing of wow wow wow. Of course, chicks like this have been to plenty of such rooms. They were both seeing me when still at my old studio the last couple of weeks there. Never said anything negative about it.

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