— A “Pornographic” Internet Exchange With An Object Lesson

I’m not what I used to be, but what you’ll read below is just a glimpse of what I was all about 3 decades ago online…in the rough and tumble—or Wild Wild West—of the Internet, as it was often characterized.

This was before the Internet was accessible to the left-woke sorts, or hyper-religious. Back then, it was mostly 110 IQ and above because that’s what it took to figure out all the werkings and get yourself online. But even in the early 1990s, you still ran into your fair share of the “socially conscious” and politically correct…mostly students because all the universities were online and in fact, it was the servers in their computer labs running much of the early Internet.

The object lesson is about a bunch of stuff like projection, hubris, moral superiority, assumptions, associations, straw men, non-sequiturs, stereotyping, guilting, shaming, apples-to-oranges…what have I missed?

Most ironically, this particular fiasco was with two Christian women, traditional family values types—people I’m normally in league with. Based on the sole fact that I live in Thailand, many it-must-be-true assumptions were made. The kerfuffle stems from a perfectly innocent comment to someone else’s post I made about what you’ll find attached to all toilets in the Kingdom and how marvelously sanitary and civilized it is.

That’s what set them off.

“HOW CAN THAILAND BE CIVILIZED!!!??? THEY HAVE GIRLS MEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH!!! SO IT’S SLEAZY AND UNCIVILIZED FOR SURE!!! AND MEN DON’T DESIRE TO HAVE SEX WITH ME BECAUSE MEN ARE JUST A BUNCH OF WHOREMONGERS!!!”

But in the end—and I’m brutal; it’s not pretty—I strip away all the bullshit to get to the true and correct fundamental heart of the matter:

The women are undesirable; nobody wants to fuck them. Rather than do the obvious thing and redeem themselves—some Western women maintain their sexiness to even young men well into their 50s—they project the results of their sloth, laziness, and hand-to-mouth behaviors onto men who’ve had enough of it. And the men are sick of all the bullshit lies demanded by emotional feelings, romanticism, and all the other misplaced trappings designed to guilt and shame them into settlement for that which diminishes them as men…and rather than simply go with the low-testosterone flow and increasingly cucked, simped, and beta-boy norm, they say fuck no, I will not comply.

“Say what and judge how you will, but I’m finished with this shit.”

There’s another means by which I shut them both up, and that one will come in handy for you, in any argumentative situation online.

In the end, I discuss some elements of, and reveal some secrets about my 1-Week Pattaya Bootcamp. Like, what kinda money we talkin about, Richard? … To the girls, I mean… It’s a crazy 4,600 additional words and given the nature of the content—to be found nowhere else—it’s easily worth the price of an entire annual membership all by itelf.

My posts and replies are in bold while those of the women are in italics.

Here’s the original reply to a post that set them off:

Of course, no worries here in civilized Thailand with its ubiquitous bum guns… Haven’t used TP in 4 years…

Kathryn Passau @wienerblumen Thailand isn’t civilised either. You just moved there for a cheap wife. Sleezy af.

Is this an unintended admission as to what an expensive Western skank-whore you are?

Proving my point. Insulting the West as if you aren’t a product of such yourself, so instead move to Thailand to exploit the women there. Just like the other thousands of boomer men

If only you had any inkling of what you’re talking about (I’m an Asia-o-phile because I worked here in a job for 5 years, dumbass, and I have tons of connections with people, and family and kids, shithead). You’re simply generalizing and tagging me because it’s convenient and 2, projecting your own shortcomings, whatever they may be, because fake self-esteem is better than none. If you aren’t it, then shit on someone else, maybe you look “good” by comparison. Pathetic and puerile.

Finally, “Insulting the West” is a deflection, as the insult was clearly directed at you because you’re the shit who started it.

[Coach @stinkypete211 interjects, to the woman: Then why aren’t u sexier?]

Replying to Coach: Notice how there’s never a profile pic. Given that people are gonna guess in a very negative light, the actual has to be really fucken bad.

Kathryn Passau @wienerblumen Sounds like cope to me. Let me guess – divorced, left a few kids behind, midlife crisis so move to south east Asia because it makes you feel important being worshipped by the locals who want a visa or your cash?

In fact, I’ve been coming to Thailand since I was 25 years old—when I lived in Japan and then France—since 1986. Hard to imagine all the hundreds I fucked over those 5 or six years looking for Mr. ATM. I had a regular job for regular wages.

No kids. Divorced, yes—retired elementary school teacher of 35 years. Amicable. We’re still friends and she asks after my latest less-than-half my age (usually) exploits and gets a kick out of them (she was and still is pretty hot…totally fuckable). She also asks after the two Thai girls of my ex (who I built a house for during the Covidiocy devastation and bought a car and financed a restaurant business for future stability) who I have in private school so they learn competent English from native speakers.

Any of this fit your cunty narrative? No? How unfortunate.

Now allow me tell you what you sound like, and I’ll guess too.

You don’t have a profile photo and you go around in search of people others desire to fuck, and you seek to belittle them because of your deep seeded inferiority. You’re a chick that nobody’s fucking, and nobody has any desire to fuck…so you have to fool yourself by making yourself believe you’re superior to those who are desired, where you’re not.

Whose narrative concerning the other is honestly closer to the mark?

And, in case you think I’m lying about being desireable to 20, 30, and 40 something Thai women, you need only go to FreeTheAnimal.com and you’ll find mounds of evidence if you look. Here’s something recent, though.

[Referring to images I included with the reply:]

I have a regular threesome gig with two very hot 42 year olds. One owns a pig farm in Buri Ram (100 pigs currently, ready for slaughter in just a few days). The other owns a legit massage parlor (no happy endings). Neither need my money. They hit me up almost daily for another session. The score is, y’know, their number of “little deaths” last time. Well, 2nd to last. The competition ended yesterday with Far still edging out at 8, Na at 7.

Sumitra comes over tonight after Fax is asleep at her neighbor’s house (who’s super hot, married to an American expat twice her age and who’s a great dad to her two kids…how does that fit in your narrative?)

Sumitra is 32.

All 4 gals know about the others. I deal in 100% no-lie honesty and transparency and insist on the same from them.

There’s a 4th I see regular, 25 year-old Muay, who thinks it’s hilarious that I’m 16 years older than her dad and after a raucous banging the first time at my posh 15th floor condo overlooking Pattaya, and she found out my age, she started laughing and got mom & dad on video promptly to tell them and put me on with them.

Huh? 5,000 year-old Thai/Siam (and Buddhist) culture vs. 4,000/2,000 year old Judamism/Christian culture?

You immature jokers have such hubris rooted in abject, finger-pointing ignorance.

You’re an undesirable, bitter-cunt nobody wants to fuck, and that’s my bet.

Redemption is almost always possible, though, and I’m a sucker for it. 17 months ago I was a guy going through a 5th of whiskey a day (for a decade at that level…3 previous decades pretty heavy). Hadn’t darkened the door of a gym in years, turned women off, and if we did get into the bedroom, “problems” were not uncommon.

What I STOPPED doing was making fucking bullshit excuses and got my ass to work doing better things.

You’re not fooling anyone, cunt. I know your heart.

[post photos: https://twitter.com/rnikoley/status/1736960997699776907]

Kathryn Passau @wienerblumen So, a degenerate that likely has aids. Nice. Bragging about how many people you slept (including married women cheating on their husbands) isn’t a flex, it’s just gross and shows moral decline. 

This is your brain rotten by porn.

[Coach @stinkypete211 interjects, to the woman: Lmfao I don’t think this guy is using porn. Enjoy being single with cats while homie here lives the dream.]

Replying to Coach: It’s typical intransigence and projection. Not to mention wild-ass assumption tantamount to accusation.

HE HAS AIDS!!!

Really, the only thing to do with people like this is to publish them. Yes, publish them.

It’s like turning on the kitchen light and watching the scurrying.

[This is the “come in handy” way of shutting someone up I referred to in the prelude. Depending on which platform you’re using, always (always always always) republish, forward, quote…or whatever…their insult, judgment, accusation…whatever it is and no mater what. Doing that sends a lot of messages to the perpetrator. Think about it.]

Kathryn Passau @wienerblumen Who said I was single with cats? I have 3 kids and happily married. 

And yeah, usually the types to be boasting about screwing other peoples wives/husbands are porn addicts or lacking some serious morals.

The irony of you reposting trad content regarding loyalty and sacrifice for women and marriage today but then defend degeneracy and sleeping around in third world countries.

[Coach @stinkypete211 interjects, to the woman: You literally called this dude out for no reason on a post about toilet paper. Get off the fucking internet grandmom.]

And how often does your husband want to fuck you, or does that not calculate into “happily” anymore?

Billions worldwide are trapped in that lie. All marriages that are not sexually exciting and robust on a daily or near daily basis are lies when bogus-characterized as happy. Many marriages, as configured now, are traps and cages, but at least with WiFi and HBO, like a cheap roadside motel.

… IOW, what’s the root source of your need for validation by means of virtue-signalling and knocking on rank strangers on the internet you’ve deluded yourself into assuming are morally inferior to yourself?

… And even if they were as bad and morally degenerate as you say, in what way does that translate to you being good, much less superior?

There are more fulfilling and satisfying ways to live. Sumitra, 32, below, mother of 5-yr-old Fax just left. It’s 05.00 here. She came over after he was tucked in at her neighbor’s house…another very desirable young Thai married to an expat American twice her age, with children.

Now she’s off to get him up, fix him some protein and rice for breakfast, get him suited up in his uniform, and off to school. To get here so she could work and have some shot with guys like me, she rode her 125cc motorbike with him on board 1000km from Chiang Rai in the way north (630 miles).

And no doubt, you delude yourself into believing you’re morally superior to her. She just had 5 “little deaths” in succession, laughing out loud about it, pleasantly exhausted even as she begins her day, because she feels guiltless.

She’s not sacked with bullshit Judeo-Christian guilt and shame for the temerity to live more in accordance with her nature.

So keep on projecting away. I’m highly suspicious that your husband, in his heart of hearts, isn’t as “happily” as you testify.

Even money he’s fucking miserable and would envy me and my life with a passion were he allowed to do so—not compelled to lie his way through life about you instead, as you would certainly demand [un]dying loyalty, even if it kills his essential nature as a man.

That’s the state of the Western world cunts like you have engineered. One day, men will realize they have the upper hand and it comes down to rank biology and psycho-epistemology.

Who makes your dick hard, who makes it limp?

And there’s no easier answer to that question in the whole world than the one I’ve presented as evidence.

In the end, you have NOTHING but your proclivities to foist guilt and shame upon others. It’s literally all you’ve got, which is precisely why you’re doing it.

Now, you’re dismissed.

Another jumps into the fray, a self-described Chaldean Catholic. As with Kathryn, above, not a whiff of a profile photo…

Tamara Yousef @FjsSiezalka This guy is definitely using porn and its pretty ironic he comments under a tweet written by an account that promotes virtue in the Wes5 and things like marriage. Teaching men how to move to Asia to find whores isn’t exactly virtuous or helping the West.

[In “he comments under a tweet written by an account…” she’s referring to Japan-o-Phile Felix Rex, who lives there—as I did for 5 years—and produces stunning videos about Japan and the West. Obviously, his most nuanced stuff has never penetrated her cunt-skull; like many, she hears only what she wants.]

“Teaching men how to move to Asia to find whores…”

Well, that would be a waste of time for any Western man—given the feminized, entitled, embittered skank-supply right at home. Good women are pretty much all taken in the West, unless quite young.

Alas, this WOMAN speaks out of abject ignorance, zero study on the topic, zero 1st hand experience…up against a MAN with 41 years of experience with the Asian female—including 5 years living in-country Japan, and now 4 years living in-country Thailand (including building a house and home for a young woman and her two daughters, buying them a car, putting the 2 girls in private school, etc…altering their life-course forever), plus many visits to other countries throughout the region (e.g., 50+ work trips to the Philippines).

The things I teach that she’s referring to are indeed salacious-sounding, the “book cover,” if you will. Wanna see inside?

Two free resources:

Pattaya Thailand 1-Week Bootcamp for Men

The Thai Connection: How Fit Older Men Attract Young Women

… Any further speculations as to Ms. Yousef’s real underlying motivations for caring how men spend their time striving to associate with alluring, desirable, hot, and sexy women in Asia are totally up to you.

Tamara Yousef @FjsSiezalka All these “Redpill” accounts teaching men to abandon their country, not marry or have kids, just sleep around (and this guy is posting these foreign women’s nudes online ) isn’t masculine at all. It’s quite sad to see the destruction of the family unit and decline of morality.

Are you sexy, though? Anyone lining up?

Tamara Yousef @FjsSiezalka We have 5 kids to raise, a much more important job than sleeping around with hookers or random men.

So, no, you are not sexy, and no one is lining up.

Understood.

“…a much more important job…”

I see you’ve taken it upon yourself to define the playing field for what’s the most important job. It’s a given that you consider raising your five children an important job, if not your most important job, and we would be in agreement. But you assume that “sleeping around with hookers” is what I consider my most important job. So how convenient for you to take your most important job and pit it against a strawman.

Congratulations, you’re so clever.

Now, suppose I was to say, well, back when I was living in America, I was trying to start a business. I tried and failed a couple of times, but finally hit my stride the third time with about 200 bucks to my name, not knowing how I was going to pay rent the next month. And I started this little financial services company for businesses in a spare bedroom that, within a few years, grew to about 30 employees doing three and a half million dollars per year. I ran it for 20 years. In that time, millions and millions of dollars in payroll went to those employees, who all had two weeks of paid vacation. They all had full family medical, zero deductible, zero co-pay, and they all had full matching 401(k)s up to 15%.

I wonder, if I was to say, “I’ve got a more important job than you,” what would you say then? I’ve done the same thing you did; I simply took my proudest thing and pitted it against you. But I fairly used your proudest thing. I didn’t dig through your own statements to define something that I could put my finest moments against.

Do you know why? Because I’m an honest man; whereas, you’re a dishonest cunt.

Tamara Yousef @FjsSiezalka Congratulations, literally paying to build up a foreign divorced woman, aka another man’s kids. That is peak cuckery.

What do you teach that actually benefits society? How are you saving men except contributing to the further decline of the West?

The woman-cunt assumes a great deal and doubles down.

The children (innocent girls, 10 and 9) were literally living in the dirt in rural Thailand, suffering the ravages of global Covidiocy lockdown. And while there had been a divorce (his infidelity), he had matured into a better man and was supporting them…until he died of liver cancer at 45.

This red-pill notion that a man is a cuckold for stepping in to foster innocent children of ANOTHER MAN!!! is peak beta boy projection. That’s not an alpha concern at all because an alpha doesn’t give a fuck what other people think.

This alpha simply envisioned what those girls (now 13 and 12…and in nearly 4 years have never said a cross word to me) could become with a stable home situation and competent English instruction from native speakers. Those on board with that are regarded and those not, disregarded, dismissed, and ignored. A hearty, Musk-esque “Go Fuck Yourselves” may ensue.

… Moreover, I say this as a veteran speaker at “red-pilled” men’s conferences where that silly attitude seems to prevail…along with a lot of other beta characteristics. It’s mere chest pumping in the shadow of the alpha.

“What do you teach that actually benefits society? How are you saving men except contributing to the further decline of the West?”

Oh, finally, a softball. I teach them how to recognize and avoid cunts like you. And cunts like these:

[Coach @stinkypete211 interjects: Sounds Based.]

Replying to Coach: Cunts like that never understand that guys like me don’t give the slightest fuck what they think, about anything.

And really, from my perspective, I do not give women the benefit of the doubt, ever. They have to be mighty damn fine for me to have a gram of respect or give the slightest shit what they think.

And, I’m thrilled when that happens. I love having women around who compel me to take notice and take them seriously.

So what to make of all the foregoing? Do I enjoy doing it? Yes, I do. When I encounter stupid and dishonest people, I enjoy making them look and feel stupid. Losing sleep is a powerful motivator for reflection and change—I’m all about redemption, a total sucker. And what I’ve shown you above isn’t the whole thing. There were other little replies. This was on Twitter, all of which were retweeted. So, let me explain that a little bit.

No matter what a person says to you, just forward, quote it, do whatever to spread their insult, assessment, judgment of you. Put them on record and if you have a greater audience…like my 6-7,000 followers vs. their handful…it amplifies the effect.

And the message you send is that, number one, you don’t give a fuck what they think, say, judge, or whatever. Number two, you’re willing to let readers decide. But the most important thing is that they see that and they think, “Oh my god, it looks like I’m helping him to spread his vile message or whatever,” and it shuts them the fuck up. What you see in my replies is the end of the thing. There were no more replies. They scurried away very quickly once I forwarded their stuff and did the replies that I did.

… The other thing is that I’m a different kind of guy to deal with. They’re used to sizing someone up and knowing how they’re going to present or argue their case because they’re in a paradigm, they’re in a pill. And all paradigms, all pills, are lies. Some are better than others, but none reflect the true nature of reality, nor do most of them in any way attempt to be dynamic and constantly test, check, and refine their paradigm.

They’re static and set.

I’ll call it—if it were that, rather than call the paradigm or pill “a pack of lies”—I would characterize it as a set of assumptions. So, when you say “our paradigm” or “our pill,” you know, our religion, our culture, our political system, our institution exists under a set of assumptions. Since we are not omniscient, since we don’t know reality fully, we have to make some assumptions. But we’re always trying to make fewer assumptions and base it on more factual data that we have. And this is a continuous improvement process that is honest, it is inviolable, and nobody fucking does it. Almost nobody. Everybody is a dishonest, lying fucking cunt with their one true way bullshit.

Just like these women—bless their hearts—I know that they’re traditional values types, and typically I am totally in league with these folks. But if you’re gonna come after me, you’re gonna find that you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about, and that I am superior to you in every measurable and conceivable way because I understand. I take assumptions for assumptions, number one. I know what lies are. I will not support lies. I will accept assumptions because those are just limitations, and we go from there.

So, the reason that I can shut people like these down is because they see right away, once they look into me, it’s like, “I can’t argue against this guy because what he says isn’t predictable. He’s not coming from any pill.” I can argue from the perspective of any paradigm or any pill. I can argue the tenets of Christianity better than those two women can. They understand that, they know that.

… And if I’m dealing with people of below 110 IQ, then I’m dealing with low IQ. The so-called average of 100 is retard level, to me. That said, I do believe people can improve their intelligence quotient over time with fully integrated honest hard work. The best possible way to go about that, that exists on the planet today, is to dive into the 114 No-Pill Advantages, the 2nd half resuming publication any day now.

Now, many are curious about the nature of these relationships, and right off the bat, I must say that we expats, the ones who are very familiar with the place—myself going back 37 years, and even prior to that in Korea and the Philippines—when it was much the same in the mid-1980s, we all say the same thing: you can’t explain it to people in the West. You can’t. It’s impossible. They have to see and experience it themselves because there are many distinctions to make.

People toss around the word ‘whore’ or ‘prostitute’ or whatever, not understanding that this culture is so vastly different in that regard. It conjures up images of sex for money, which applies on a technical level, but that’s where the similarities end. And you can also say, at the risk of calling all women whores, what woman wants to date a broke-dick, unsuccessful man? A man who has no record, no experience, no maturity? Of course not. A woman’s primary drive in a mate is a sense of safety and security, because men are typically stronger and bigger, and more—or shall I say—less apprehensive and fearful of things. They have a higher degree of risk tolerance, and so on. Plus, women are the bearers of the children, so they need a layer of protection that’s above themselves. This is all normal and natural.

So, the oldest profession—and it’s called that for a reason—is not really about money for sexual services. It’s about an exchange of values. That’s simply one manifestation of it. The true distinction to make is this: professionalism. So, is she a professional prostitute? That is distinguished by women who, with very few, if any, qualifications or standards, will exchange sexual services for money. This is not the case in Southeast Asia. Services are priced inexpensively, so that there are many potential customers. It’s not like going to a cat house in America. And you have—well, I don’t know, I’ve never been to one—20 to 30 girls, and you’ve got a few guys in the place, typically, and he gets his pick. And the woman is pretty much obligated to provide the services. If he was not someone that they should be providing services to, the house would exclude him. It’s not up to the girl.

In Southeast Asia—I’m saying Southeast Asia because any place where such things happen, you will find this to be the case—the girl has absolute say because the prices are relatively inexpensive, and there are a lot of potential customers, so she has her pick. People think, “Oh, the guy just goes in there and says, ‘Oh, this one, this way, I want this one.'” It doesn’t work that way at all. Never has. You will get rejected by so-called prostitutes often, especially the older you get. Or you get the lines, “I’m on my period,” “I feel sick,” “Something, something, something.”

Why do you think so many guys put in the effort to eat right, go to the gym, limit their alcohol consumption, dress nicely? If they could just go out and say, “Here, come on,” it doesn’t work that way.

Okay, now you want to know what the price is. Well, for one thing, tourists pay a lot more. A lot of girls like the tourists, obviously, because they’re here for a week or two or three, and they know what they’re going to spend. They don’t want to leave with any baht, so they’re very flexible. “How much do you want?”

Okay, so let’s look at exchange rates. ฿1000 is roughly 30 bucks, between 30 and 35, depending on the exchange rate at the time.

There’s a number, and this is confidential information from my Bootcamp. It’s not in the brochure, but it’s part of the course—one of the hundreds or thousands of things a guy will learn from the 1-copy physical handout he swears on his mother’s life to never copy and distribute.

Can you negotiate on price? Shuwa you can. I never do. I’ll tell you the mathematical reason why.

First of all, some girls will never specify a price. They don’t ask for anything upfront, and if you ask them after—whether they stay an hour or two or three, or whether they stay all night and clean your kitchen… Believe me, if your kitchen is a mess, 95% of them will clean your kitchen, sweep your floors, make your bed, fold your clothes, whatever needs doing.

So, if you ask them, “What would you like?” they’ll say, “It’s up to you.” So when they ask upfront, like, “Well, you know, how much will you give me?” My answer is always the same: ฿2000. And I don’t make a distinction between short time, which is typically an hour to three, or long time, which is all night and overnight. I say “it’s 2000; you leave when you want.”

Why would you want them staying if they want to leave? Now, those who are used to tourists and know that they can get 3000, 4000, even 5000—and even for a short time, not a long time, not an overnight—sometimes they’ll say that. And my reply is always the same: “It’s 2000; you leave when you want.”

Now, 50% of the time, they’ll accept that, and the other 50% of the time, they’ll say something like, “Well, you know, whatever.” So, let’s say it’s 5000. I had this happen recently. It’s like this: I say the reason I use 2000, it’s not about the money—we’re talking about roughly 60 bucks. The reason I use 2000 is because it’s decent money, number one. It’s not a ridiculous amount of money. I mean, the average wage in Thailand for a full day of work is like ฿300 to ฿500, so 2000 is like a full week’s work for the average Thai person.

So it’s reasonable money, number one. Number two is that if she does it, there’s a good chance it’s because she wants to, apart from the money, but 1000-1500 is widely regarded as rock bottom, so on the one-hand you’re not scraping the barrel and on the other, you’re substantially below what they know—if they’re quite hot—what they could get, say, from a tourist with money to burn temporarily. When they demand three or four or five—particularly when you get the four and the five insistence—it is because she doesn’t really want to go with you, but she would resign and do it anyway, because the money is too good to pass up.

That’s where you get into this distinction of professionalism. So that’s wherein my little test lies, because I’m obsessively against wasting time or money on the true professionals. They’re generally cold and awful.

So I’ll put it to you like this: When you pay 2000 and it’s because she wants to, the chances of a good time—both sitting around talking, listening to music, doing whatever, going out to eat, and the bedroom—and if it’s an overnight, the overnight part in the morning, having breakfast, all of that—it’s a very, very high percentage of a really good experience, and sometimes amazing. And you can’t wait to have her back and you start thinking about taking her on a weekend getaway, all of that.

She makes you feel good, like a man should shamelessly feel. You might even get emotional about it, rationally and validly…not as a petty little infatuation.

You relent and pay the 5000?

Opposite. You’re almost certain to have a lousy experience and bad sex.

Do the math.